Sheldon Cooper says in The Big Bang Theory that pain is an evolutionary process. It forces you to develop strength, maturity, insight and courage. It makes you see things in a different light, in a way unperceived in our happy state because we are too engrossed in celebrating….
Pain is necessary.
Pain is pertinent.
And whether the world is mature enough to understand it or foolish enough to berate it, it is your reality…
So deal with it because no one else can and no one else will !