When you want to thank me for those notes I lent you,
When you want to say sorry for being late for our date,
When you want to make me feel special on my birthday,
When you want to celebrate valentine’s day,
When you want to just surprise me at work,
When you come to see me off at the airport,
When you want to show that you love me,
Bring me some flowers…
We all have made mistakes in the past, and we are making one in the present and will hopefully make in future…..
But should that stop us from living our life ?
It is important to make mistakes – it is the only proof that shows we are doing something
Mistakes are bound to happen if we are living our life to the fullest, grasping opportunities, falling in love, giving that dreaded exam, venturing into a new business, raising a kid etc.
But that’s what makes us mature and experienced…At every stage of our life, we make mistakes. The goal is to learn from them, prevent them in future and move on …. Not making mistakes is not only impractical but also impossible if you want to move ahead… Ofcourse you can choose to not make mistakes, but then your learning process stops and you inch towards stagnation…
We need to stop ourselves from beating us over them
Mistakes have to be taken with the right attitude… You cannot dwell on them for the rest of your life..You can’t feel the guilt and agony from committing them..
You have to learn from them..
You have to stop repeating them…
But You don’t have to feel guilty of committing them…
Because if you do, when will you live?
Sheldon Cooper says in The Big Bang Theory that pain is an evolutionary process. It forces you to develop strength, maturity, insight and courage. It makes you see things in a different light, in a way unperceived in our happy state because we are too engrossed in celebrating….
Pain is necessary.
Pain is pertinent.
And whether the world is mature enough to understand it or foolish enough to berate it, it is your reality…
So deal with it because no one else can and no one else will !
Break free from the chains of banality,
Discover your own impassioned creativity !
Love is all around , Love is in the air !!
That’s what the picture tells too !! 😉
Light up your lives this festive season , expel the darkness away !
There is so much beauty in the world to be seen and felt !
Darkness won’t let you – both of the world and of your mind !
These little reminiscences of the time spent with you still adorn the pages of my life !
The freshness of the petals is ephemeral, but that of the memories is eternal.
To all the people, who judge me before knowing my story, I say
“ Walk a mile in my shoes ! Then only will you know.”
“It isn’t as easy as you would have probably thought! “